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Patterns

Actions that repeat in a predictable way. Being able to clock someone’s patterns of behavior allows a structure for trust. You can adapt your actions to match a pattern or take an action to disrupt it. Interrupt the pattern, change the game.

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Creepy Wally! You Should Be Kept On A Leash!

The Creepy Wally attack isn’t just for #metoo encounters. People who are overly inquisitive (nosy), who take up too much space in the conversation, watch your every move, demand to know where you are, need you to be constantly available, etc. are also using the Creepy Wally attack against you.

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Join a Mob and Ruin Your Life

I’ve added Jake Angeli’s dilemma to the growing list of “Hoist by your own Petard” DramaGuru cases. When your plan to upset another backfires on you, life gets complicated.