How to Jump Out of the River of Shame
Floating in the River of Shame gets comfortable. People get used to explaining why they are there. After a while, they stop looking for an exit to jump through.
A DramaGuru Revelation position to describe behavior like ignoring problems, burying your head in the sand and not taking responsibility.
Floating in the River of Shame gets comfortable. People get used to explaining why they are there. After a while, they stop looking for an exit to jump through.
Maybe you made a mistake. But, as long as you’re trapped in this place, you block new doors from opening. Guardian Harut keeps track of how many times you refuse to take the exit marked “Grace This Way”.
As an insider, Jackson Raffitt knows more about his father’s behavior and motivations than those of us watching from the outside.
During Covid, I miss the friendly connection with people helping me solve problems with paperwork and other issues. Now, I’m sent to their website.
In the end, it’s a familiar story with international espionage and MI6 handlers thrown in for dramatic effect. Most cheaters don’t have such interesting story lines. But the trap is the same and it works perfectly every time.
What looks like dumb moves to you, reflect a different choice that might, eventually, lead to the right place for that person. Not the right place for you, of course. Each person is given a life path and a Doomsday clock.
Analyzing situations through the lens of DramaGuru helps me to see the traps people fall into. And the ones they try to set for me.
Evangelist Joyce Meyer says that her father raped her more than 200 times when she was a teenager. In the spirit of using bad experiences to help people sort out what happened to them, I’ve used Joyce’s story to illustrate how people get stuck in traps using what I call a “DramaGuru Analysis”.