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Blind Spot

Things we avoid seeing. Exposing what is hidden in a blind spot is often painful, but always illuminating.

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The Hammerhead Shark DramaGuru Position

People who operate out of Hammerhead Shark Position have power. They may have actual authority based on their position in the family, where you work or their role in social groups. Their leadership can be formal or informal. They treat people like objects. Not permanent. Easy to replace. They can buy whoever they need.

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Creepy Wally! You Should Be Kept On A Leash!

The Creepy Wally attack isn’t just for #metoo encounters. People who are overly inquisitive (nosy), who take up too much space in the conversation, watch your every move, demand to know where you are, need you to be constantly available, etc. are also using the Creepy Wally attack against you.

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DramaGuru Relationship Cards (68)

The “Relationships” deck of cards goes deeper into sorting things out with people who really get under your skin. Don’t get overwhelmed by the number of cards. Just pick out a few and see how they apply to the people and conversations in your life.

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Agree to Disagree and Live Longer

What looks like dumb moves to you, reflect a different choice that might, eventually, lead to the right place for that person. Not the right place for you, of course. Each person is given a life path and a Doomsday clock.