I’m watching you! I see you and I notice what you’re doing. Also, getting clocked by a well thrown punch.
The “Relationships” deck of cards goes deeper into sorting things out with people who really get under your skin. Don’t get overwhelmed by the number of cards. Just pick out a few and see how they apply to the people and conversations in your life.
If everyone’s doing it, then it must be okay, right? Perfectly safe. “90% of nonconsensual pornography victims are women.” Or maybe not. A DramaGuru Analysis of the intimate photo trap.
Evangelist Joyce Meyer says that her father raped her more than 200 times when she was a teenager. In the spirit of using bad experiences to help people sort out what happened to them, I’ve used Joyce’s story to illustrate how people get stuck in traps using what I call a “DramaGuru Analysis”.
It’s hard for me to relate to Allison’s character, “Chloe”, being sweet and innocent, knowing that in real life, she did evil things to women, enslaving them and makng them call her “Master”.
Sharing power sounds scary, but it works to slow your Doomsday Clock. Being connected, instead of separate, requires significant changes in how you relate to people.
At a base level, I have to trust people. I have to feel connected to something. I need to trust the organizations that serve us. But my trust is broken.
Cruelty continues. It all started because the $20 bill George Floyd presented was perceived to be fake by the cashier.
So, who wins in the tug-of-war between abundance of caution and abundance of bravado?
Amber and Madison: One of the most popular things to do during lockdown turned out to be playing a video game called Animal Crossing.