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Disrespect

Rude or insulting behavior. Withholds approval. Expresses disapproval or resentment. Disconnects from you and holds you at arm’s length. Makes you feel inadequate or not important. You mean nothing to me.

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The Hammerhead Shark DramaGuru Position

People who operate out of Hammerhead Shark Position have power. They may have actual authority based on their position in the family, where you work or their role in social groups. Their leadership can be formal or informal. They treat people like objects. Not permanent. Easy to replace. They can buy whoever they need.

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Creepy Wally! You Should Be Kept On A Leash!

The Creepy Wally attack isn’t just for #metoo encounters. People who are overly inquisitive (nosy), who take up too much space in the conversation, watch your every move, demand to know where you are, need you to be constantly available, etc. are also using the Creepy Wally attack against you.

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DramaGuru Relationship Cards (68)

The “Relationships” deck of cards goes deeper into sorting things out with people who really get under your skin. Don’t get overwhelmed by the number of cards. Just pick out a few and see how they apply to the people and conversations in your life.

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Mr. Wilson’s Secrets and Lies

In the end, it’s a familiar story with international espionage and MI6 handlers thrown in for dramatic effect. Most cheaters don’t have such interesting story lines. But the trap is the same and it works perfectly every time.

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Trapped by a Rabbit

Everyone knows someone who gets through life by running in the opposite direction whenever it’s time to take responsibility for something. In my game called, “DramaGuru Revelation”, this style of behavior is assigned to the Rabbit position.