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Position Before Submission

For attacks to work, your opponent (or you) must secure a position of strength. Without this strong base, your attacks will not be successful.

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Call me back!

During Covid, I miss the friendly connection with people helping me solve problems with paperwork and other issues. Now, I’m sent to their website.

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Afro Samurai Tie Dye

Afro Samurai. Some things never change. Gang violence. Political arguments. Corporate back-stabbing. There’s always someone willing to vanquish the person standing in the Number One spot.

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Single Mum, Faerie-Tale Farm

Kierti put the cart before the horse, building her log cabin before getting approval. As a punishment, the planning commission banned her from living on her farm. Trapped! She needs help from a pivot person.

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Mr. Wilson’s Secrets and Lies

In the end, it’s a familiar story with international espionage and MI6 handlers thrown in for dramatic effect. Most cheaters don’t have such interesting story lines. But the trap is the same and it works perfectly every time.

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Trapped by a Rabbit

Everyone knows someone who gets through life by running in the opposite direction whenever it’s time to take responsibility for something. In my game called, “DramaGuru Revelation”, this style of behavior is assigned to the Rabbit position.

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Frisky Business: Revenge Porn

If everyone’s doing it, then it must be okay, right? Perfectly safe. “90% of nonconsensual pornography victims are women.” Or maybe not. A DramaGuru Analysis of the intimate photo trap.

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Joyce Meyer, Survivor #MeToo

Evangelist Joyce Meyer says that her father raped her more than 200 times when she was a teenager. In the spirit of using bad experiences to help people sort out what happened to them, I’ve used Joyce’s story to illustrate how people get stuck in traps using what I call a “DramaGuru Analysis”.